Reviewed by Karen (Retired Bookseller); This memior covers a truly difficult time in the writers life, when he becomes the main carer for his elderly parents, one with numerous, very serious health issues. RC has written an extremely honest, eye watering and humorous account of the hugh challenages, practical & personal, that come when navigating the difficult task of caring for elderly parents. A very insightful & inspiring read.
An irresistibly moving, honest and often hilarious memoir about caring for your parents when you can barely care for yourself.
It was the kind of phone call we all dread. Your elderly father has been admitted to hospital. He's not well and he needs your help. Your mum is about to be left at home alone. She needs you too. The answer? Simple. Drop everything. Go. Just be there. Just help.
The reality? Not so straightforward. Suddenly, you're a kid again, stranded in the overheated house you grew up in. They need you 24/7, that much is obvious. And you want to help, of course you do. But soon your life starts to unravel almost as quickly as their health. In between bouts of washing, feeding, cooking and fighting there are days that test you, days where everything goes wrong and days where everyone, miraculously rises to the occasion. And in between all of that, you learn how to care. But this time with feeling.
Irresistibly funny, unflinching and deeply moving, this is a love letter to family and friends, to carers and to anyone who has ever packed a small bag intent on staying for just a few days.
This is a true story of what it really means to be a carer, and of the ties that bind even tighter when you least expect it. This is The Reluctant Carer.
Family and health, Memoirs
Paperback
The Reluctant Carer
320 pages
H: 234mm W: 153mm Spine: 22mm
Weight: 406 grams